It's been along time!

Someone was asking recently! I don't think I have access to your blog anymore, because I'm still reading stuff from last Easter!!!!
Blogging is great! It takes time and energy and apparently I ran out of steam!

I also probably was not sure how helpful it actually was to anyone!
But it's a new year, and even though I know I cant' keep it up daily, (I was never good at keeping dairies) I will try to update it at the end of the month. Reflecting on the events that we shared at the parish. Already January is promising! A great evening was held with the Confirmation classes and their parents - then we had Deacon Gerry Turpin - challenge us parents and offer us hope in our most demanding JOB - which is raising our children - then coming up this Friday we have our very first couplehood evening.

It's all very exciting and keeps me going!

Have a Blessed New Year! And remember it's never too late to start your New Year's resolution!!!!
(P.S. I finally got back on the treadmill this morning January 18th - better late then never)

Palm Sunday at Saint-Luke's

Palm Sunday marks the beginning of Holy Week. As I have not been working on Sunday's this year, it was nice to see and welcome everyone - As the church filled up and the blessed palms were distributed, the children were gathered around the altar. With the help of the altar servers and the children's liturgy animators - the "parade" marched down the aisles waiving their palms and signing HOSANNA. It's a great way for the children to grasp the reality of HOLY WEEK. Something different was in the air. There's lots more to come until all together we can shout again "ALLELUIA He is Risen - Indeed He is risen"

I hope that we all have a very meaningful Holy Week - filled with the graces that come from seeking the One who gave his Life for US.

Visit to the Cathedral

WOW! WOW! and WOW!!! On a bright and sunny day, over 50 families from Saint-Luke's Confirmation group joined many other families from the Montreal area at the Cathedral today, Sunday March 25th - 2007. In fact, I estimate that we were over 800 people gathered today at the Cathedral. By the time I got there at 1:08 pm - I could see families waiting outside - looking forward to the visit. Each family received a tour package with instructions and a quizz (worksheet) to guide them along and help them discover the many riches at the Cathedral. It was wonderful to see the families working together and learning about our Cathedral. During the whole visit, Bishop Mancini met the parents and the many grandparents who also attended the event. Around 2:45pm the Bishop had a chat with the group - he spoke about his call to be a bishop - he put on his own style of "fashion sow" in order to demonstrate the different vestment that the Bishop wears and then he answered several questions from the youth.

Mrs. Aitken took many pictures that we will be part of the retreat presentation and I might be able to post a few to this site. Comments from the families will be sollicitated and I will post them as well.

For me it was just so great to see the church full of life - full of the young people who just by being there make a difference in our church but who one day will take on leadership roles in our faith communities. God is Good! God has planted in our hearts the seed of faith - sometimes we just have to tend our gardens daily to see the garden grow.

LA Religious Education Congress

Spring Break in LA.

What's in LA - well, in fact it's Anaheim, California. Every year the Diocese of Los Angeles hosts the largest Catechetical Conference in the US and most probably the world. You can see photos of this year's conference at www.recongress.org.

Attending events such as this, allows catechists to gather not only for formation but also for a sense of Church that is alive and well! Imagine 10,000 adults in an arena celebrating mass - signing in 3 languages (english,spanish & vietnamese) - WOW! Who could of imagined!!! it's my third visit to this event and I don't tire of it. In 3 days, one can choose 8 workshops from a total of 166 - other events such as keynote speakers , evening concerts , lunch time entertainment, and eucharistic celebrations that touch the soul....

I come back refreshed and ready to face the next part of our programs - Now if Spring would only show up - I would be ever grateful.

Video | MediaWise.org

In one of my recent newsletter, I referred parents to a web site that deals with media and families. If you click on the link you can listen to interviews that were done with Dr. Walsh in the media talking about the difficulties in raising our children in today's culture. Take the time to have a look - it's worth it.

Video MediaWise.org

Taking Time out for God!

This morning the parents of the children preparing for First Communion in the French community at St-Luke's gathered for a mini-retreat. In fact, we celebrated the Eucharist together. But not just a plain mass, we are blessed that Father Roger is able to take the time to explain things as he celebrate.... from the Why of the books to the colours of his vestments, add a little history of the church and there is so much to learn. We have a faith that is rich in rituals, people and history. Not all history comes up smelling like roses but all in all - we have to remember that we are people of the world and sometimes we make the same mistakes of the world. God guides us but does not make us do stuff! It's up to us, the people of the church, to stand up and be counted when injustices occur.

This morning readings were about the Beattidues... you know Blessed are those who.... are poor for the Kingdome of God is there.... our culture seems to be more full of attitudes then BEATTITUDES.

I thnk God that as a community of faith, I have the opportunity to come together with adults, parents who love their children and only want their best and are able to take SOME TIME for themselves because by doing so they are also PRAISING GOD since we are in fact made in his image.

Raising Catholic Kids - part I

"The Slopy depth of Love -
Last evening, Tuesday, February 6th, Deacon Gerry Turpin welcomed about 35 parents and shared with them insights about raising children in today's world all the while keeping a catholic perspective. What struck me - was the relationship between the word disciple and discipline. Parents are the most important teachers to their child - are children are "young disciples" following a role model. Parents who see their children as disciples are thus called to be Christlike to them.

Studies state that by the 3rd year of High School, only about 5% of students have a healthy self-esteem. Children need good role models to guide them. But what about discipline???? How can a parent discipline? A new definition of discipline was offered "discipline is not punishment but it is a teaching process". This teaching process is not based on cohersion or control. Deacon Gerry stated that discipline is 90% prevention & 10% correction. Children misbehave because they have a perception that they are not Loved. Key word is "perception" - but we do know that they learn early on that good behaviour does not warrant adult attention however certain behaviours do get adults attention quite promtly. Prevention is recognizing the behaviour that you want your child to exhibit and using praise to support it. "The more you recognize the good behaviour the need for bad behaviour decreases" says Deacon Gerry. In other word, "Catch them being good".

During the evening many more areas were mentionned, such as

• Children have been taught the power of "NO" - our job is to teach ourselves (the parents) alternatives to "NO" such as "Yes but later" or "Give me a minute"
• Children will respond to good preventative discipline
• Children also need corrective discipline i.e., consequences for inappropriate behaviour - accountability rather than punishment
• Children need to be allowed choices within limits - in biblical sense he refered to the story of the Rich Young Man - Jesus proposes but the young man has to choose - make a decision.

All these ideas and much more.... When do I let go? What about anger? How do I break the cycle?

If you want to hear more, Gerry will be back next Tuesday February 13th. Please feel free to invite a friend.

Thank you Gerry for sharing your experience.